If one issue in our times illustrates the terrible double standards faced by men, it's that of domestic violence. A prominent and topical issue is the differing ways violent and abusive pop stars are treated depending on their gender. For example, it seems barely a day goes by without some feminists condemning Chris Brown for domestic violence, and we even have a campaign of feminists vandalising CDs highlighting artists who allegedly beat women.
At the very same time we've seen female abusers openly admit to their violence and even commit it on camera, yet the media never see it as notable and certainly not wrong. This same attitude is found in the rest of society, such as in the police and justice system.
The latest major female artist to admit to domestic violence is Cheryl Cole, but you won't see any headlines condemning it. The Daily Mail has the information under a headline about her injecting vitamins into her rear end, so it's clear that domestic violence by famous women against famous men is less newsworthy than such a practice (if your'e interested, apparently the injection didn't even have much of an effect anyway). The Mail do at least report the information though, stating she admitted "shaking him, kicking him, scratching his face, pushing and shoving him like I was a lunatic". The Sun newspaper reports more details such as the following admission "I hit him in the face — I couldn’t help it". So there we go then, Cheryl Cole not only commits domestic violence against her husband, she seems rather unapologetic about the whole thing and it appears somehow she is so dangerous and out of control she is unable to stop herself from such acts and it is the victim's fault.
Just imagine if a male singer female in such a way, we'd never hear the end of it, particularly if he also had a history of violence. If I've I've missed anyone, particularly feminists, or a domestic violence charity condemning her then perhaps someone can add ti to the comments section, I certainly can't find anything though. All the media reports appears to do is portray her as the victim and allow her to excuse and give the impression violence by women is entirely justified in cases of infidelity.
Remember, unlike with cases that often hit the headlines form time to time, we aren't talking about mere, unproven allegations of domestic violence here and one persons' word against another's. Cheryl Cole has admitted to her crimes in her book and is making money off such material. Given her previous conviction, perhaps the police should have a read of it?
Anyway, for the benefit of those adding stickers to CDs of artists who commit domestic violence, here's a few you seem to have missed:
Cheryl Cole
Whitney Houston
Rihanna
Amy Winehouse
Mary J Blige
Quite an impressive line up, I wonder how many albums they've sold combined? The last individual on that list even has a domestic violence centre named after her (and I don't mean one for male victims as recompense for her crimes).
by John Kimble.
Update, thanks to "TDOM" in the comment section for pointing out the following important detail I missed:
According to Cheryl, Ashley's mistress was quoted on the internet stating "The girl said Ashley had been so drunk he couldn’t walk straight — that he was incoherent and that he was vomiting during the sex."
This indicates that this was not just an affair, but that the woman sexually assaulted him. in many jurisdictions, being incapacitated by drugs or alcohol means that he could not have consented to sex. So not only was he sexually assaulted, but he was beaten by his wife for being sexually assaulted.
I could add the recent interview with one of TV's. Piers Morgan and the studio laughed even as the perpetrator said "it's not right".
Posted by: Groan | Monday, 08 October 2012 at 13:26
Oops. It was Denise Welch. She specifically said her husband had never been violent. Then listed the various attacks she'd made. She at least looked a bit ashamed but clearly most of the audience and Piers saw it as a big joke.
Posted by: Groan | Monday, 08 October 2012 at 13:35
What would they say if the man had turned around and given her one almighty punch in the face...as would be his RIGHT, it's called self defence. Women have been murdering and walking free for years on the same basis.
Only White knights allow this too happen. The MRM needs to finally fully recognise that the White knight is the biggest enemy of the entire Men's rights movement. Without these chivalry brainwashed grovelling little man-lackies, the feminist would have no way to enforce their agenda, remember that.
Posted by: Stuart | Tuesday, 09 October 2012 at 09:40
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2215022/Speaker-Australian-parliament-resigns-hundreds-vile-text-messages-sent-assistant-women-s-genitalia-published.html
Talking of double standards...
So how is it all those women on TV and other places who constantly make jokes far worse at Men are not forced to resign?
Posted by: Stuart | Tuesday, 09 October 2012 at 12:34
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-politics/9595724/Lily-Allen-attacks-idiot-blokes-over-abortion-limits.html
Now lilly allen shows more of her misandry and double standards, or shoudl I say low standards.
Posted by: stuart | Tuesday, 09 October 2012 at 14:11
Positive discrimination slowly reaping what it sews?
So how is it when a top FEMALE judge is arrested, the allegations are kept under wraps?
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2215142/Britains-black-woman-judge-arrested-home.html?ITO=1490
Posted by: Stuart | Tuesday, 09 October 2012 at 16:54
Woman police worker given more money than some men get for broken backs...because her feelings got hurt, when they took away her tax payer paid for dog. This was because she made herself unable to full-fill her duties upon coming pregnant for a second time.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2215064/Policewoman-wins-11-000-payout-Met-took-sniffer-dog-pregnant-second-time.html?ITO=1490
Posted by: Stuart | Tuesday, 09 October 2012 at 17:35
Men's dream coming a reality?
A Jizz immobiliser pill?
Give men the power of control over the reproductive right? Heaven forbid! You can imagine it now can't you, now they will be screaming "Emotional domestic violence" because he was taking the pill and she WANT WANT WANT WANT Wants a baby NOW! Well they will have to find another tool of blackmail if we get it, I guess that will be it?
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/9597121/Gene-discovered-which-stops-sperm-swimming.html
Posted by: Stuart | Tuesday, 09 October 2012 at 20:42
A very read-worthy story over on AVFM about one MRA and his treatment by the system that does not want men "waking up".
I myself have been through this more than once in my 13 years fighting the filth of feminism and the white-knight mentality of brainwashed men, mostly in the Police, courts, law and general society. All should read it, it shows why sitting in sheds or down the pub moaning is not an option and white-knightism in Men is the Number One enemy to be destroyed first. Take their tools and weapons away, then you expose the core.
http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/mra-hunger-strike/
Posted by: Stuart | Wednesday, 10 October 2012 at 09:41
Correct me if i'm wrong but didn't they peddle this dishonest propaganda during the superbowl and that was proved to be a lie too
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2216636/Domestic-violence-rises-England-win-lose-big-football-matches.html?ITO=1490
Posted by: stuart | Friday, 12 October 2012 at 19:06
"Man up" indoctrine groomed into toddlers?
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/9604948/Sisters-toughen-up-lecture-to-toddler-brother-goes-viral.html
Posted by: stuart | Friday, 12 October 2012 at 19:15
It's called where's the accountability for women, and some times it actually happens. Mother gets 99 year in prison, no not in UK of course and i suspect there will be some vagina'victim'poor thing too harsh for a woman crap that will get her out in several years.
http://news.yahoo.com/mom-gets-99-years-prison-gluing-tots-hands-160458042.html
Posted by: andy | Friday, 12 October 2012 at 22:45
http://news.yahoo.com/photos/file-thursday-oct-11-2012-file-photo-words-photo-165724923.html
You may also enjoy the list of excuses, seen behind the prosecutor, at the top of it is ISRAEL? I do like the nice touch above her head, something that would probably apply to the majority of women in the family courts of the UK
Posted by: andy | Friday, 12 October 2012 at 23:05
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2217352/Revealed-Fake-letter-cast-doubt-Savile-victims-claims--played-key-role-BBC-decision-ditch-Newsnight-investigation.html
I have said from day one this stinks.Lets watch VERY closley, if my instincts are right, this could be one of the biggest events in the sphere of the abuse industry in showing many things about it that need to be shown.
Posted by: Steven | Sunday, 14 October 2012 at 00:04
It's even worse than you report. According to Cheryl, Ashley's mistress was quoted on the internet stating "The girl said Ashley had been so drunk he couldn’t walk straight — that he was incoherent and that he was vomiting during the sex."
This indicates that this was not just an affair, but that the woman sexually assaulted him. in many jurisdictions, being incapacitated by drugs or alcohol means that he could not have consented to sex. So not only was he sexually assaulted, but he was beaten by his wife for being sexually assaulted.
Posted by: TDOM | Sunday, 14 October 2012 at 18:27
Superb analysis TDOM, thanks for the input, I didn't realise I had downplayed the severity of what occurred.
Posted by: John Kimble | Monday, 15 October 2012 at 06:55
She can confess openly to an actual assault on a victim of abuse and its a big joke, meanwhile about four blokes have been thrown in jail and even hounded out of their homes by a mob for posting insults on Twitter. Says it all really.
Actually I believe in the UK that having sex with someone who is incoherent is classed as rape. Though there is no male rape law so therefore there has been no crime committed by her.
Posted by: Bob | Monday, 15 October 2012 at 20:37
So Bob, what is anyone in the MRM doing about it? Maybe a group official complaint to the police on behalf of an MRM site is in order? Unless people do something, talking about it is pointless.
Posted by: stuart | Tuesday, 16 October 2012 at 11:20
Why are charity's like Mankind not making a noise about it publicly? Women's charities would screaming by now? Mankind should be going to the press and TV etc, it's high profile.
Posted by: stuart | Tuesday, 16 October 2012 at 11:23
This is terrible,this is totally wrong...Domestic violence convictions are rising, but we all need to do what we can to protect women from abuse,I would like to appreciate the great work done by You..
Please continue posting like this.
Posted by: famous feminists | Thursday, 22 November 2012 at 07:01